Nice Guys Finish Last

Why do people think that "nice guys finish last"? Some guys are so convinced that they have nobody because they're "nice guys." There are plenty of guys who have somebody. And I'm pretty sure a majority of them are nice. I'm not trying to be mean, but maybe the reason that a "nice guy" doesn't have a partner is because they are too caught up in believing that no one wants them. I'm sure it's not very attractive if you spend your time feeling sorry for yourself. I'm pretty sure that people don't label a specific person as a nice guy. I think they label themselves that because they are convinced that that's what they are.

To a "nice guy": Most likely, you think you "finish last" because the person that you like, or the people you've liked in the past, didn't like you back. But that doesn't mean that someone else doesn't like you. You're probably sad because you only want the one you can't have, while there's plenty to choose from.

So I think that the phrase "nice guys always finish last" is totally false. Boys/Girls, take a look at your girlfriend/boyfriend. Are they not nice? "Nice guys" don't always finish last. It's the guys who have no self confidence and are too blind to see that he is a great person with a great personality.

So again to the guys who think they are "nice guys": First of all, cheer up a bit because I'm sure there is someone who has noticed you and has taken to your liking. Second, just try to have a little more self confidence in yourself. I'm sure if you're nice, it's not going to turn off people. It will make them happy and make them appreciate you. Be yourself and it will pay off.

Nice guys don't always finish last.